Thinking about becoming a surrogate and wondering how long it’ll take to meet your intended parents? Let’s dive into the details of this exciting journey!
At Stork Baby, we typically see matches happen within 1-3 months after a surrogate’s profile goes live. But remember, it’s not a race! Finding the right match takes time, but when it clicks, it’s magic.
Factors Affecting Your Timeline:
- Your Preferences: The more specific you are, the longer it might take. But that’s okay! Whether you’re looking for local parents, same-sex couples, or families who share your values, we’re here to find your perfect match. Being open to different types of intended parents can speed up the process, but it’s important to stay true to what feels right for you.
- Intended Parents’ Wish Lists: Just like you, they have their own hopes and preferences. Some might be looking for a surrogate with previous experience, while others might prefer a first-time surrogate. Some may want someone local, while others are open to long-distance arrangements. The sweet spot is where your interests align.
- Seasonal Surges: Believe it or not, surrogacy has busy seasons! We often see a boom in the new year when folks are acting on resolutions to grow their families. Summer can also be a popular time as people have more flexibility for appointments and travel. Keep in mind that your matching process might be quicker during these peak times.
- Our Matchmaking Process: At Stork Baby, we take matching seriously–we’re in it for the long haul. Our careful process involves:
- Reviewing profiles in-depth
- Considering personality matches
- Ensuring alignment on key issues like selective reduction or termination
- Checking compatibility in communication styles – this thorough approach ensures a great fit, even if it takes a bit longer.
- Your Responsiveness: Quick replies to our queries or potential intended parents can speed things up, but don’t worry – we know life happens! We appreciate your commitment to the process while understanding that you have other responsibilities too.
The Matching Steps in Detail:
- Profile Creation: We work with you to create a comprehensive surrogacy profile. This includes your medical history, previous pregnancies, lifestyle information, and what you’re looking for in intended parents.
- Profile Sharing: We carefully share your profile with potential intended parents who match your criteria. This is done with full respect for your privacy.
- Initial Interest: If intended parents express interest, we’ll let you know and share their profile with you. You can ask questions and decide if you’d like to move forward.
- The Meet-and-Greet: If there’s mutual interest, we set up a video call or in-person meeting. This is your chance to get to know each other and see if there’s a connection.
- Reflection Time: After the meeting, both parties have time to reflect and decide if they want to proceed. There’s no pressure – it’s important that everyone feels good about the match.
- Moving Forward: If everyone agrees, we start the next steps of the surrogacy process, including medical screenings and legal contracts.
Remember, finding the right match is crucial for a positive surrogacy experience. It’s worth taking the time to ensure everyone’s comfortable and excited. Some surrogates match quickly, while for others it might take a few months. Every journey is unique!
Ready to start your surrogacy adventure? We’re here to guide you through every step of this amazing journey, from creating your profile to finding your perfect intended parent match. Your surrogacy story is waiting to unfold, and Stork Baby can’t wait to help you write it!
